WHERE ARE MY KIDS?
PARENTS, YOUR KIDS ARE ASKING
THE SAME THINGS ABOUT YOU
Today there was an article in the New York Times about the new risks being considered when it comes to how plugged in the world is with texting, social media, blogging, etc. It's been a few years now since people were asking themselves what effect these things would have on young people (currently between their early teens and mid 20's), but that's because we're the generation that's developing these things. We're used to it!
It isn't until now that researchers are considering what impact will be made on the generation that's born into this connected (or rather disconnected) world. Parents were infamous for their questioning of these social media tools when they first came on the board with their children, but now WE are the parents, and the PARENTS are the ones in question. The generation who developed the concept of tweeting is having kids and starting families. But can they disconnect (or rather connect) enough to raise their kids the way they were raised, or is the concept of parenting changed forever?
There can really only be two outcomes...
(1) Kids born after the social media craze blew up (let's say, after the late-90s) will grow up to be a product of their parents invention. They will be tweeting from the crib and Facebook will have gone from a forum for college students to a forum for preschoolers on up. Foriegn language courses will be taught internationally on Skype, forests will flourish because print will be completely dead, and sidewalks all over the world will be reformatted so that you never have to look up from your iPhone, Droid, or... whatever the hell the next new phone is.
or...
(2) The same kids will grow up without the nurturing feeling that is human nature to desire as a child ever being satisfied. They will eventually skip school not to stay home and blog, but rather to venture into the woods where they will have formed communes - bartering and trading goods, and making their own toys from the trees around them (which, remember are flourishing now) - simply for the sake of real human contact. You might call is a reversion of 1984.
Either way, the issue is real. Kids in the emerging generation are going to grow up in a way that is more dissimilar than any other generation of parenting in history. Whether it's good or bad, who knows? But we have to ask ourselves, what makes us human? And are we sacrificing that, one status update at a time?